Retirement
The cheeky financial secrets Australians keep from their partners
Loved-up Aussies are spending $1.6 billion on secret purchases behind their partner’s back, according to new market research, including on adult entertainment and clothes shopping.
The cheeky financial secrets Australians keep from their partners
Loved-up Aussies are spending $1.6 billion on secret purchases behind their partner’s back, according to new market research, including on adult entertainment and clothes shopping.
According to comparison site Finder, 2.7 million Australians hide purchases from their partner, spending roughly $588 per month in secret.
Breaking this down further, men are sneaking more than double what women are, with men spending $807 per month on secret purchases while women hiding roughly $366 a month from their partners.
Money expert at Finder Bessie Hassan believes that discussing spending habits with your partner might depend on the stage of the relationship.
“[I]f you’re merging finances and moving in together, you’ll probably need to have a conversation about money and spending habits,” she said.

“After all, if you plan on buying a home together down the track, both your credit scores will be considered. If your partner has a bad credit score, it’ll impact your borrowing power as a couple.”
What are these hidden purchases?
Of the secret spending, the most common purchases for Australians are hiding clothes at 38 per cent, guilt food being 32 per cent, gambling 26 per cent and shoes being 18 per cent.
Rounding out the list are pub sessions/alcohol, cigarettes, adult entertainment and narcotics, with the remaining 8 per cent being unknown.
How are they hiding these purchases?
Most Australians are using cash for their guilty pleasures as a way to keep the transaction off the record. A further 26 per cent are using debit cards while 24 per cent have put it on the credit card.
“Using cash does suggest some Aussies are going the extra mile to cover their tracks. But if you’re going to be merging finances — and lives — with your partner, they’ll find out sooner or later if you’re splashing cash behind their back,” Ms Hassan said.
About the author
About the author
Retirement Planning
Wage growth steadies as businesses navigate economic challenges
In a sign that the Australian labour market may be finding equilibrium, wage growth has stabilised this quarter, according to Employment Hero's latest data. This development comes as employers ...Read more
Retirement Planning
Simplified retirement advice: Key to overcoming behavioural biases, experts say
In a bid to enhance retirement outcomes for Australians, a recent whitepaper by Industry Fund Services, in collaboration with Challenger, has highlighted the importance of simplifying retirement ...Read more
Retirement Planning
Rest launches Retire Ready digital experience to empower members approaching retirement
Rest, one of Australia’s largest profit-to-member superannuation funds, has unveiled a new digital experience aimed at making retirement preparation simpler and more personalised for its members. Read more
Retirement Planning
New Framework Aims to Bridge Australia’s Financial Advice Gap
A ground-breaking framework introduced by the Actuaries Institute promises to revolutionise how Australians access financial support, potentially transforming the financial wellbeing of millionsRead more
Retirement Planning
The downsizer dividend: how Australia’s ageing shift will reshape property, finance and AI strategy
Downsizing is moving from a personal milestone to a system-level lever for Australia’s housing market. As policymakers court reforms and agents eye fresh listings, the real profit pools will accrue to ...Read more
Retirement Planning
Half of Australians financially insecure about retirement as AMP launches new initiative
In a significant move aimed at addressing the retirement concerns of Australians, AMP has unveiled the Retirement Confidence Pulse, a national barometer designed to gauge the financial confidence of ...Read more
Retirement Planning
North introduces Grow to expand Australia's financial advice footprint
In a bid to bridge the gap between the demand for financial advice and its accessibility, North, a prominent platform for superannuation and retirement in Australia, has launched an innovative ...Read more
Retirement Planning
Majority of Australians anxious about retirement as super knowledge gaps persist, report finds
A new study by Aware Super has revealed that a significant majority of Australians aged 45 and over are feeling anxious about retirement, with nearly nine in ten respondents concerned they will run ...Read more
Retirement Planning
Wage growth steadies as businesses navigate economic challenges
In a sign that the Australian labour market may be finding equilibrium, wage growth has stabilised this quarter, according to Employment Hero's latest data. This development comes as employers ...Read more
Retirement Planning
Simplified retirement advice: Key to overcoming behavioural biases, experts say
In a bid to enhance retirement outcomes for Australians, a recent whitepaper by Industry Fund Services, in collaboration with Challenger, has highlighted the importance of simplifying retirement ...Read more
Retirement Planning
Rest launches Retire Ready digital experience to empower members approaching retirement
Rest, one of Australia’s largest profit-to-member superannuation funds, has unveiled a new digital experience aimed at making retirement preparation simpler and more personalised for its members. Read more
Retirement Planning
New Framework Aims to Bridge Australia’s Financial Advice Gap
A ground-breaking framework introduced by the Actuaries Institute promises to revolutionise how Australians access financial support, potentially transforming the financial wellbeing of millionsRead more
Retirement Planning
The downsizer dividend: how Australia’s ageing shift will reshape property, finance and AI strategy
Downsizing is moving from a personal milestone to a system-level lever for Australia’s housing market. As policymakers court reforms and agents eye fresh listings, the real profit pools will accrue to ...Read more
Retirement Planning
Half of Australians financially insecure about retirement as AMP launches new initiative
In a significant move aimed at addressing the retirement concerns of Australians, AMP has unveiled the Retirement Confidence Pulse, a national barometer designed to gauge the financial confidence of ...Read more
Retirement Planning
North introduces Grow to expand Australia's financial advice footprint
In a bid to bridge the gap between the demand for financial advice and its accessibility, North, a prominent platform for superannuation and retirement in Australia, has launched an innovative ...Read more
Retirement Planning
Majority of Australians anxious about retirement as super knowledge gaps persist, report finds
A new study by Aware Super has revealed that a significant majority of Australians aged 45 and over are feeling anxious about retirement, with nearly nine in ten respondents concerned they will run ...Read more
